In my line of work, I run into hundreds of people, who refuse to think before they act, and or speak. Young people these days (yes i know i sound old), have been spoon fed everything. Their parents, have made it nearly impossible for them to think on their own. They constantly want someone to hold their hand, instead of taking initiative, to do things on their own.
I'm not saying you toss your child to the wolves, but after you've taught them whats right, and wrong, you push them out the nest, and say good luck.
LETS GET IT!